Is it "management" or is it "manipulation"? Are you a good "leader", good "manager" or are you just good at manipulating?
I personally think people can intentionally manipulate, accept to be manipulated so we all get what we want out of the situation. Am I cynical? Can people be so samaritan they are a good leader for a greater good of mankind?
Is everything we do some kind of manipulation or other? And all for personal gain?
And is there always win-win because surely you win some and lose some?
On social network (again)
When it goes wrong. People become less inhibited in expressing their views. Things that are not normally said out loud, are "posted", "blogged about", "twittered". This can't be right. Sometimes posts are removed, deleted but the upset caused cannot be erased. It really is for grown-ups. The more sociable your network is, the more emotionally resilient you have to be.