The main reason why we feel frustrated is how we perceive others' behaviour to be unreasonable. When we ask other people to do something for us and they do not which we interpret it to be unreasonable. That causes frustration. When other people ask you to do something. You think they are being ridiculously unreasonable in what they ask or in the timescale they ask you to do it in. When you explain to them and they don't want to listen to you. You are frustrated. They are also frustrated because they can't get what they want from you.
If people can be objective about what is considered reasonable or unreasonable disputes would be resolved by applying tan equation to calculate whether someone acts reasonably or not or how reasonable they are on the scale of 1-100. Then people wouldn't be frustrated. Unless it is human nature to get what they can't have and we are doomed to forever be frustrated because we are never satisfied with what there is here and now.
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